I agree with the pope that in order for a parent to be viewed as responsible, he/she must meet all of the conditions he listed. Parents who abuse their children are not responsible through the physical and psychological conditions because that damages the child's mentality growing up and sometimes causes them to lead a very tragic life. It also impacts not just the child, but also the ones around the child. If a parent is not meeting the economic conditions, then the child will not have enough resources to grow up in a healthy environment and will not be able to cherish his/her youth as much as one with a wealthy parent(s). Social conditions must also be met or the child will not be able to learn how to communicate with other and cope to the society. The consequences are very simple; if a parent(s) is not responsible, he/she/they lack the conditions needed for the growth of a child and so they are not considered responsible parents.
In connecting this concept to our class, we have been talking about how culture and background creates identity. This relates through the idea that if a parent is not responsible, then the culture and background of the child will not lead to a successful future since it will be of bad influence and irresponsible parenthood. Clarifying the concept more, it is through our parents good responsible parenthood which has influenced us to be where we are today and that is college.
I agree with your final claim here. Our parents have definitely constructed us into the type of people we are. So it is no surprise that when you come across a child or even adult with poor habits or unsuccessful ways of life you look to their parents and go "oh that's where it came from." Which is why I can't understand why people say things like "i'm never going to be like my parents" because at the end of the day if they are the people who are raising you and spend lots of time with you, then that is who you will be most like. So, I agree with the Pope, it is important to be a responsible parent.
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